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just wait and see j and i have an uncle h. uncle is a very good person。 j and i often call him spontaneously, uncle he, can we have a dinner with u at ur home tonight. he answers, with hesitate, ok, come here, if u want. so we just go to him and gain a dinner with him. his pet phrase ist, just wait and see. i have never herad he refuses somebody directly. as we heard that pet phrase, we laughed at him and his attitude to life, that hints his pet phrase. we made an appiontment, if we say that phrase, we will get punished. j has been got punisched a few times because of saying it. i really don not like the attitude, that hints the phrase, just wait and see. why not do and see, why not try ur best and see. as a sociologist, i konw, there are no isolated things. one thing depends on a lot of other things. we can not succeed all by ourself. but as a human being, we have love, hate, like, dislike, will, unwill and desire etc. to get clear with all these emtions and attitudes. that will help us to success something, we really want, and aviod something we really do not want. u must have clear attitude about something that is very important to u. u must not speak it out. but u must konw, what do u really want and what u can do for it. then just do it , try ur best in stead of just wait and see. try ur best, God will also help u. but unfortunately i find, recently i speak also that phrase just wait and see. i am afraid i will say it too often in the future. then i will be a person, who i totally dislike. so my friends, please do not get used to say # just wait and see. !! it is not good at all. 12月28日 some reflections after i watched bbc documentary, a primary school in si chuan tonight after my dinner i watched bbc documentary. it was about a primary school, er ping village primary school in si chuan. er ping is a extrem poor village. teacher li gui lin is the only teacher in that school since 17 years. he gets paid just 100 yuan monthly. but he has done his job for 17 years and he will coutinue. he always tries his best to teach to children with love and paitence.the simile on children face is his best payment. the children must walk on the very bad pathes throught the moutain for hours to attent school. some times they must work hard at home to feed the pig or collect grass. because the people are so poor. some children have no chance to attent school, even thought they are just teenager or younger. er ping is not the only poor village in china.there is so much misery in china and else where in the world. compared with this misery, my pain is nothing. how can i do not work hard to get a better carrer aund to have more chances to help other people. stop think about u are lonely, work hard juat like a man! 12月9日 走回了一步 最近忙于一些事情,心境精神不出脚边3米距离,自己都渐渐觉得枯燥。 今天和一个有意思的朋友说话,才重又回归一些以前让我喜欢的东西,懒列如下, 博客, 宋石男 钱 烈宪 书籍, 娱乐至死 消失的童年 电影, 解放军占领巴黎 疯狂的帽子 可惜暂时没有时间细看! |
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